39 lines
440 KiB
HTML
39 lines
440 KiB
HTML
|
<!DOCTYPE html>
|
||
|
|
<html lang="zh"><head><title>为什么不推开那扇门？</title><meta charset="utf-8"/><link rel="preconnect" href="https://fonts.googleapis.com"/><link rel="preconnect" href="https://fonts.gstatic.com"/><link rel="stylesheet" href="https://fonts.googleapis.com/css2?family=IBM Plex Mono&family=Noto Serif Simplified Chinese:wght@400;700&family=Source Sans Pro:ital,wght@0,400;0,600;1,400;1,600&display=swap"/><meta name="viewport" content="width=device-width, initial-scale=1.0"/><meta property="og:title" content="为什么不推开那扇门？"/><meta property="og:description" content="对生活中的观察和反思，以及对人性和社会现象的深刻思考。."/><meta property="og:image" content="https://wiki.7wate.com/static/og-image.png"/><meta property="og:width" content="1200"/><meta property="og:height" content="675"/><link rel="icon" href="../../../static/icon.png"/><meta name="description" content="对生活中的观察和反思，以及对人性和社会现象的深刻思考。."/><meta name="generator" content="Quartz"/><link href="../../../index.css" rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" spa-preserve/><link href="https://cdnjs.cloudflare.com/ajax/libs/KaTeX/0.16.9/katex.min.css" rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" spa-preserve/><script src="../../../prescript.js" type="application/javascript" spa-preserve></script><script type="application/javascript" spa-preserve>const fetchData = fetch("../../../static/contentIndex.json").then(data => data.json())</script></head><body data-slug="Personal/Blog/2023/为什么不推开那扇门？"><div id="quartz-root" class="page"><div id="quartz-body"><div class="left sidebar"><h2 class="page-title"><a href="../../..">🪴 X·Eden</a></h2><div class="spacer mobile-only"></div><div class="search"><button class="search-button" id="search-button"><p>搜索</p><svg role="img" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" viewBox="0 0 19.9 19.7"><title>Search</title><g class="search-path" fill="none"><path stroke-linecap="square" d="M18.5 18.3l-5.4-5.4"></path><circle cx="8" cy="8" r="7"></circle></g></svg></button><div id="search-container"><div id="search-space"><input autocomplete="off" id="search-bar" name="search" type="text" aria-label="搜索些什么" placeholder="搜索些什么"/><div id="search-layout" data-preview="true"></div></div></div></div><button class="darkmode" id="darkmode"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" version="1.1" id="dayIcon" x="0px" y="0px" viewBox="0 0 35 35" style="enable-background:new 0 0 35 35" xml:space="preserve" aria-label="暗色模式"><title>暗色模式</title><path d="M6,17.5C6,16.672,5.328,16,4.5,16h-3C0.672,16,0,16.672,0,17.5 S0.672,19,1.5,19h3C5.328,19,6,18.328,6,17.5z M7.5,26c-0.414,0-0.789,0.168-1.061,0.439l-2,2C4.168,28.711,4,29.086,4,29.5 C4,30.328,4.671,31,5.5,31c0.414,0,0.789-0.168,1.06-0.44l2-2C8.832,28.289,9,27.914,9,27.5C9,26.672,8.329,26,7.5,26z M17.5,6 C18.329,6,19,5.328,19,4.5v-3C19,0.672,18.329,0,17.5,0S16,0.672,16,1.5v3C16,5.328,16.671,6,17.5,6z M27.5,9 c0.414,0,0.789-0.168,1.06-0.439l2-2C30.832,6.289,31,5.914,31,5.5C31,4.672,30.329,4,29.5,4c-0.414,0-0.789,0.168-1.061,0.44 l-2,2C26.168,6.711,26,7.086,26,7.5C26,8.328,26.671,9,27.5,9z M6.439,8.561C6.711,8.832,7.086,9,7.5,9C8.328,9,9,8.328,9,7.5 c0-0.414-0.168-0.789-0.439-1.061l-2-2C6.289,4.168,5.914,4,5.5,4C4.672,4,4,4.672,4,5.5c0,0.414,0.168,0.789,0.439,1.06 L6.439,8.561z M33.5,16h-3c-0.828,0-1.5,0.672-1.5,1.5s0.672,1.5,1.5,1.5h3c0.828,0,1.5-0.672,1.5-1.5S34.328,16,33.5,16z M28.561,26.439C28.289,26.168,27.914,26,27.5,26c-0.828,0-1.5,0.672-1.5,1.5c0,0.414,0.168,0.789,0.439,1.06l2,2 C28.711,30.832,29.086,31,29.5,31c0.828,0,1.5-0.672,1.5-1.5c0-0.414-0.168-0.789-0.439-1.061L28.561,26.439z M17.5,29 c-0.829,0-1.5,0.672-1.5,1.5v3c0,0.828,0.671,1.5,1.5,1.5s1.5-0.672,1.5-1.5v-3C19,29.672,18.329,29,17.5,29z M17.5,7 C11.71,7,7,11.71,7,17.5S11.71,28,17.5,28S28,23.29,28,17.5S23.29,7,17.5,7z M17.5,25c-4.136,0-7.5-3.364-7.5-7.5 c0-4.136,3.364-7.5,7.5-7.5c4.136,0,7.5,3.364,7.5,7.5C25,21.636,21.636,25,17
|
||
|
|
<p>我就纳闷了，为啥不能把另一扇门也推开呢？就是有些人宁愿排队，宁愿等，都不愿意用手指头戳开它。可能是有些人认为那一扇门打不开，可能是有些人根本就没有意识到这个问题，可能是有些人坐着电梯下来从来不知道有这扇门。就算有人打开了这一扇门，也并不会有人注意到它，可能会感觉今天怎么不堵了。它好像是薛定谔的猫一样，处于一种叠加态；除非哪天另外的一扇门也关上，就会有人发现最初只打开了一扇门。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>当初在郑州疫情放开管控一个月后，我们公司领导层都未决定放开管控。原因是公司作为大型医药流通企业，必须保证药品流通供应承担应有的社会责任，但是集团内部论坛上充斥着种种骂声。大环境如此，纵使不放开管控谁又能拒绝感染呢？不出所料，公司上上下下将近两千个人在三天之内几乎都被感染。就这样，公司都不放开管控；后来为了稳定情绪，一些距离很近的回家了；其余不能回家的，如果坚持发烧上岗，体温不低于 38.5°，每人每天奖励 100 元。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>疫情感染过后，临近年底物流子公司的业务繁忙，公司领导要求所有部门去仓库支援。并且口头保证将根据出勤次数奖励现金。部门老同事说这都是老传统了，一边劝着你去，一边自己又不去；人力资源部门最后统计支援出勤次数，各位同事又是积极证明自己去了多少次，甚言不信看监控！但人力资源部门表示：仅奖励支援次数最多的 1000 元，于是又有人恨自己去的次数少了。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>随着时间的推移，这些事情似乎像并没有发生过一样，不再被人所提起。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>我受限自小成长的环境，争强好胜的心理格外强烈，什么事都爱拔得头筹。当取得了某种成就并站上了一个新台阶时，总是喜欢指点一二的。因此当时我特别喜欢改变别人，比如同学啊，田径队友啊，甚至女朋友啊，亲人啊等等，就像哥伦布发现了新大陆一样，开始到处奔走相告传递新思想。我很偏执地认为人生必须要追求生命的意义，创造生命的价值，你应该怎么怎么样去做，你这样做不行。以至于到处碰壁，头上磕满了包，或许，叫醒人的只有南墙吧。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>下学踏入社会，求职工作，伴随着阅历的增加、智慧的充实。我开始变得越来越理解：每一个人所处的环境和社会阅历都不一样，认知也是大相径庭。我凭什么把一株小草变成参天大树？更甚至我凭什么让大树有花香？我就想吃一口苹果，你给我说葡萄多甜多甜，可我就想吃一口苹果。她可能已经很开心、快乐、幸福了，但是我对她说离开这个浪浪山，外面会更美好。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>楼梯拐角处的那一扇门，可能不仅仅是我觉得只有一扇门是开着的，或许哪一天我路过的时候也不会看两扇门是否同时开着。公司领导层对员工不尊重的决策和赤裸裸的剥削，只需拿 100 元便可以弄人性。对我来说，这是一种极致傻逼，但或许有一些人每月还清房贷本来就不剩多少钱，还可以多花 100 元来改善自己的生活。默默恨自己支援次数不是第一的人，或许存了一年钱就差这 1000 元买到心仪的相机。</p>
|
||
|
|
<p>这世间万物终究是让花成花，让树成树。子非鱼，安知鱼之乐？但人啊，难得糊涂，更难得一世糊涂。</p></article><hr/><div class="page-footer"></div></div><div class="right sidebar"><div class="graph"><h3>关系图谱</h3><div class="graph-outer"><div id="graph-container" data-cfg="{"drag":true,"zoom":true,"depth":1,"scale":1.1,"repelForce":0.5,"centerForce":0.3,"linkDistance":30,"fontSize":0.6,"opacityScale":1,"showTags":true,"removeTags":[],"focusOnHover":false}"></div><button id="global-graph-icon" aria-label="Global Graph"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" viewBox="0 0 55 55" fill="currentColor" xml:space="preserve"><path d="M49,0c-3.309,0-6,2.691-6,6c0,1.035,0.263,2.009,0.726,2.86l-9.829,9.829C32.542,17.634,30.846,17,29,17
|
||
|
|
s-3.542,0.634-4.898,1.688l-7.669-7.669C16.785,10.424,17,9.74,17,9c0-2.206-1.794-4-4-4S9,6.794,9,9s1.794,4,4,4
|
||
|
|
c0.74,0,1.424-0.215,2.019-0.567l7.669,7.669C21.634,21.458,21,23.154,21,25s0.634,3.542,1.688,4.897L10.024,42.562
|
||
|
|
C8.958,41.595,7.549,41,6,41c-3.309,0-6,2.691-6,6s2.691,6,6,6s6-2.691,6-6c0-1.035-0.263-2.009-0.726-2.86l12.829-12.829
|
||
|
|
c1.106,0.86,2.44,1.436,3.898,1.619v10.16c-2.833,0.478-5,2.942-5,5.91c0,3.309,2.691,6,6,6s6-2.691,6-6c0-2.967-2.167-5.431-5-5.91
|
||
|
|
v-10.16c1.458-0.183,2.792-0.759,3.898-1.619l7.669,7.669C41.215,39.576,41,40.26,41,41c0,2.206,1.794,4,4,4s4-1.794,4-4
|
||
|
|
s-1.794-4-4-4c-0.74,0-1.424,0.215-2.019,0.567l-7.669-7.669C36.366,28.542,37,26.846,37,25s-0.634-3.542-1.688-4.897l9.665-9.665
|
||
|
|
C46.042,11.405,47.451,12,49,12c3.309,0,6-2.691,6-6S52.309,0,49,0z M11,9c0-1.103,0.897-2,2-2s2,0.897,2,2s-0.897,2-2,2
|
||
|
|
S11,10.103,11,9z M6,51c-2.206,0-4-1.794-4-4s1.794-4,4-4s4,1.794,4,4S8.206,51,6,51z M33,49c0,2.206-1.794,4-4,4s-4-1.794-4-4
|
||
|
|
s1.794-4,4-4S33,46.794,33,49z M29,31c-3.309,0-6-2.691-6-6s2.691-6,6-6s6,2.691,6,6S32.309,31,29,31z M47,41c0,1.103-0.897,2-2,2
|
||
|
|
s-2-0.897-2-2s0.897-2,2-2S47,39.897,47,41z M49,10c-2.206,0-4-1.794-4-4s1.794-4,4-4s4,1.794,4,4S51.206,10,49,10z"></path></svg></button></div><div id="global-graph-outer"><div id="global-graph-container" data-cfg="{"drag":true,"zoom":true,"depth":-1,"scale":0.9,"repelForce":0.5,"centerForce":0.3,"linkDistance":30,"fontSize":0.6,"opacityScale":1,"showTags":true,"removeTags":[],"focusOnHover":true}"></div></div></div><div class="explorer mobile-only"><button type="button" id="explorer" data-behavior="collapse" data-collapsed="collapsed" data-savestate="true" data-tree="[{"path":"Personal","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog/2018","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog/2020","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog/2021","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog/2022","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog/2023","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Blog/2024","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/个人成长","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/医学健康","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/历史","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/哲学宗教","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/心理","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/政治军事","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/教育学习","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/文学","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/生活百科","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/社会文化","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/科学技术","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/经济理财","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/艺术","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Book/计算机","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W34","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W35","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W36","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W37","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W38","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W39","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W41","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W42","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W43","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W44","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W45","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W46","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W47","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W48","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W49","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2022/W50","collapsed":true},{"path":"Personal/Journal/2023"
|
||
|
|
</script><script type="module">
|
||
|
|
let mermaidImport = undefined
|
||
|
|
document.addEventListener('nav', async () => {
|
||
|
|
if (document.querySelector("code.mermaid")) {
|
||
|
|
mermaidImport ||= await import('https://cdnjs.cloudflare.com/ajax/libs/mermaid/10.7.0/mermaid.esm.min.mjs')
|
||
|
|
const mermaid = mermaidImport.default
|
||
|
|
const darkMode = document.documentElement.getAttribute('saved-theme') === 'dark'
|
||
|
|
mermaid.initialize({
|
||
|
|
startOnLoad: false,
|
||
|
|
securityLevel: 'loose',
|
||
|
|
theme: darkMode ? 'dark' : 'default'
|
||
|
|
})
|
||
|
|
|
||
|
|
await mermaid.run({
|
||
|
|
querySelector: '.mermaid'
|
||
|
|
})
|
||
|
|
}
|
||
|
|
});
|
||
|
|
</script><script src="https://cdnjs.cloudflare.com/ajax/libs/KaTeX/0.16.9/contrib/copy-tex.min.js" type="application/javascript"></script><script src="../../../postscript.js" type="module"></script></html>
|