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<h2 id="工作">工作<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#工作" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>2021 年 3 月 5 日是我拥有第一份很正式的工作，很幸运也很开心呀。一路走过来不容易 ~</p>
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<p>当时找到这份工作真得激动的要哭了……离家超级近，仅 10 分钟的路程。而且公司很正规：五天八小时、双休、法定节假日年假、从不加班！</p>
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<p>薪资的话平均每个月到手 3500 左右，年末刚谈了绩效🤩，新的一年到手应该是 4000 左右。加班双倍工资可以摸到 4500 的屁股了。正常满勤是 14 薪，上半年请了好多好多的假期，所以今年 13 薪😭。公司管吃管住省了好多好多好多😛</p>
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<p>过完假期有很多新项目会上线，应该会忙一阵子，不过平时是真得很划水 ~</p>
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<p>唯一的缺点就是没有发展潜力，部门的老同事很多，大家都是一个萝卜一个坑，很少很少裁员，所以就需要熬 si 同事才有晋升机会。😫</p>
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<p>新的一年好好工作，努力学习！</p>
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<h2 id="爱好">爱好<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#爱好" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>今年新增了两个爱好：摄影和钢琴，摄影是一直都在拍拍拍，钢琴倒是学习的少。不过好喜欢钢琴曲，超级解压！</p>
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<p>今年趁周末好好把郑州转转，再学习学习 PR、PS 尝试一下自媒体。</p>
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<p>趁年轻多做加法，搞不动了再说！</p>
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<h2 id="生活">生活<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#生活" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>感觉跟自己的朋友，特别是结完婚成家立业的朋友似乎是越来越远了……</p>
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<p>没有办法呀，人家孩子都多大了，自己还在这挂着嘞……</p>
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<p>就感觉大家已经不是在一个圈子里了，而且产生了一次最奇葩的矛盾更颠覆了我的认知……</p>
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<p>事情是这样的：</p>
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<p>朋友 A 喊我吃饭，朋友 B 去了，C 是后来去的。我和 A、B 的关系比较好，然后呢 B 平时经常找我买药（我在医药行业工作，买药比较实惠）。我就聊起来说：可以尝试刷社保并买一些小额度的保险，这样下来一年也能省不少钱，你也不用那么累了。B 说不太懂，我就深入讲了几句。</p>
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<p>C 这时候听着感觉不爽，说大过年提这丧气的事情。然后呢，我听出来他的意思了。我也想我表达方式可能有问题，毕竟大家都不想生病。我赔了不是，说没注意场合很抱歉哈。</p>
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<p>然后呢，C 蹬鼻子上脸，我也没啥说的了，丢下一句话：兄弟实在是佩服。便走了……</p>
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<p>事后 A、B 并不觉得 C 很过分，只是说 C 喝了酒别往心里去。我也知道我说话方式可能不妥，大家并接受不了这样的方式。</p>
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<p>我的出发点在于 B 是从事体力劳动，无五险一金和商业保险，平时医药支出也大，我作为好朋友想替他省点钱。大家觉得我可能在丧人家的气，然后我就觉得大家好像已经不是一个圈子的人了……</p>
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<p>事后我也反思了一下，我说话场合不太合适，但是我出发点没错，不过以后还是尽量少说点……</p>
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<h2 id="感情">感情<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#感情" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>客观的来说，我不是在恋爱就是在恋爱的路上……</p>
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<p>以前也是好不懂事，总是很喜欢恋爱带来的热闹感，呵护感和安全感。也不知道自己究竟为什么这样，而且每一段感情都很不愉快……</p>
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<p>认真的来说，我想结婚、想成家似乎都是因为小时候家里的琐碎带来的阴影，自己也不知道如何正确的处理和消化。企图通过恋爱来修复这块伤痕，所以就超级想成家结婚，似乎结婚就可以解决这所有的问题。</p>
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<p>然而呢，并不是这样的，稚嫩的时候无法正确的认知和辨别事务的对错，还带着些许的迷信，偏执，自以为是。</p>
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<p>没有领路人没有伯乐，似乎就在这条路上错的越来越远了。</p>
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<p>上一次很痛的恋爱后，家里的催婚各个方面又开始了一段新的感情。似乎问题解决了，似乎也在重蹈覆辙。现如今这段感情也到此结束了，今年确确实实成长成熟了很多，由内而外的成长。也能去看清事物本质，结合客观实际去做选择。</p>
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<p>现在对我来说，稳定的工作、稳定的生活、稳定的情绪都是非常重要的！而且是及其重要的，虽然还带着些历史包袱。但是质变需要一个过程，最后也会带来一个结果。</p>
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<p>去年一年都在努力向前看，今年依旧要努力向前看。</p>
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<p>过去的很多事情都无法弥补，有时候也会困扰着我。再次真诚的希望，伤害过我的和我伤害过的人，大家都可以过的很好，越来越好。</p>
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<h2 id="父母">父母<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#父母" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>老爸老妈还是那个样子咯，自己需要调整好自己啦。父母也很在乎自己的孩子，只是生活、环境造就成了这个样子。希望自己能更好的处理好家庭、父母的关系！</p>
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<h2 id="老姐">老姐<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#老姐" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>在老姐这似乎都是个不懂事的孩子，伴着成长。以后自己多加把劲努力生活，也替老姐愤愤忧！</p>
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<h2 id="新年快乐">新年快乐<a role="anchor" aria-hidden="true" tabindex="-1" data-no-popover="true" href="#新年快乐" class="internal"><svg width="18" height="18" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round"><path d="M10 13a5 5 0 0 0 7.54.54l3-3a5 5 0 0 0-7.07-7.07l-1.72 1.71"></path><path d="M14 11a5 5 0 0 0-7.54-.54l-3 3a5 5 0 0 0 7.07 7.07l1.71-1.71"></path></svg></a></h2>
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<p>看到这了，你也很有耐心哈哈。愿不开心和不愉快都离我们而去，幸福哈🥰</p></article><hr/><div class="page-footer"></div></div><div class="right sidebar"><div class="graph"><h3>关系图谱</h3><div class="graph-outer"><div id="graph-container" data-cfg="{"drag":true,"zoom":true,"depth":1,"scale":1.1,"repelForce":0.5,"centerForce":0.3,"linkDistance":30,"fontSize":0.6,"opacityScale":1,"showTags":true,"removeTags":[],"focusOnHover":false}"></div><button id="global-graph-icon" aria-label="Global Graph"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" viewBox="0 0 55 55" fill="currentColor" xml:space="preserve"><path d="M49,0c-3.309,0-6,2.691-6,6c0,1.035,0.263,2.009,0.726,2.86l-9.829,9.829C32.542,17.634,30.846,17,29,17
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